Love doesn't just sit there, like a stone; it has to be made, like bread, remade all the time, made new.
Ursula K. LeGuin
The making and remaking of love is a never ending endeavor. Falling in love is like giving birth to a child. Two parents, both responsible for the health and happiness of a baby they create together. Neither parent is more important; if both do not do their fair share of tending chances are eventually they will have a sick kid.
Happily ever after is not a location that you just naturally reach when you fall in love. It exists, but the journey there is not guaranteed to be a smooth one. Obstacles exist and have to be dealt with. Demons attack and have to be vanquished. But by making love then remaking love, over and over on every level, you slant all the odds in favor of reaching where you are heading.
THINK ABOUT IT
LET IT GROW